I first met Rosemary eighteen months ago. My son, Ryan, died in a road accident three months before, on Halloween, and I suppose I was looking for someone to help me find him.

A friend had told me about Rosemary, who, I discovered, lived not far from me. I approached her and asked if she would come to my house and speak to a group of kids, Ryan's sister Mia, and Ryan's friends, who had been devastated by our loss. She agreed to come, and that was the beginning of our friendship.

I started going to Rosemary's classes, which, over the last eighteen months have helped me tremendously.

When Rosemary moved her office, I found my opportunity to give something back to her. My knowledge of computers is quite wide, and compared to Rosemary's expertise in this area, which I am sure she will not mind me saying, is nil, I found myself a useful asset to her office. My husband Michael, my daughter Mia, and I, have all benefited greatly from knowing Rosemary, and by being able to understand that Ryan is not too far away from us.

It feels great to be involved, and to be able to give something back.